As I've gotten older I have learned the importance of surrounding myself with the right people. I've always been a lowkey person, never had a whole bunch of friends and it has never bothered me, well I won't say never. I used to want a lot of friends to do things with, to go on trips with, and to always have somebody to hang with or talk to when no one else was available. I've always felt like I was a great judge of character and I just couldn't fuck with anybody. Nobody is perfect so a few people slipped under my radar and I allowed them to be in my life even though they were toxic to me.
You have those friends that only hang out with you when it's convenient for them, you have those friends that only like coming around when you have something to offer them. There are those that will smile in your face and talk shit about you behind your back. Don't get me wrong, we can all be a little two-faced at times, but a true friend is going to talk that shit to your face too! I've lost a lot of people in my life who I once felt like would be around forever. Some of them ended on bad terms and some ended up as simply drifting apart.
I am a very loyal person. Once I care about someone I'm down for whatever and I'll do whatever I can to help them out when they need it. I had to learn that just because I care about you and I'm loyal to you doesn't mean you'll do the same for me in return, and that's just some shit I can't get with. I talk about cutting people off quite often, not because I want to, but because I have to. I can't stand selfish people, I can't stand liars, I can't stand sneaky people. I've encountered all of those people in my life and if you fit the mold for any of those traits then you have got to go!
A lot of people are afraid of being alone. I lost my best friend and a guy that I thought I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this year. That type of thing can really fuck with a person, but nobody is worth being unhappy for. Growing causes you to see who the people in your life are who really does care about you, who those people are that are rooting for you and wishing you the best, and who's sitting silently in the cut waiting for you to fail.
The people who you surround yourself with will literally make or break you. Not being afraid of being alone is essential to being happy. I know all I want out of life is being happy and having everybody in my circle succeeding and rooting for each other.
So as future says, "You got people that's around you, they gon try they best to down you. Keep them squares up out your circle..."
I am a very loyal person. Once I care about someone I'm down for whatever and I'll do whatever I can to help them out when they need it. I had to learn that just because I care about you and I'm loyal to you doesn't mean you'll do the same for me in return, and that's just some shit I can't get with. I talk about cutting people off quite often, not because I want to, but because I have to. I can't stand selfish people, I can't stand liars, I can't stand sneaky people. I've encountered all of those people in my life and if you fit the mold for any of those traits then you have got to go!
A lot of people are afraid of being alone. I lost my best friend and a guy that I thought I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this year. That type of thing can really fuck with a person, but nobody is worth being unhappy for. Growing causes you to see who the people in your life are who really does care about you, who those people are that are rooting for you and wishing you the best, and who's sitting silently in the cut waiting for you to fail.
The people who you surround yourself with will literally make or break you. Not being afraid of being alone is essential to being happy. I know all I want out of life is being happy and having everybody in my circle succeeding and rooting for each other.
So as future says, "You got people that's around you, they gon try they best to down you. Keep them squares up out your circle..."
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